Alright, listen up, friends! In this episode of *The Problem Is You*, we’re getting real about something we’ve all been guilty of—falling for someone’s potential. You know, that dreamy version of them you create in your head, only to find yourself disappointed when reality doesn’t quite match up? Yeah, that.
Cait’s here to break down the difference between potential and possibility, and trust me, it’s a game-changer. Potential is all about desire—what we *hope* someone could be. But possibility? That’s where the magic happens. It’s about what they’re actually doing to grow and change. And it’s time we stop getting those two mixed up.
We’re talking real talk about relationships, personal growth, and how to stop setting ourselves up for heartbreak by attaching to a version of someone that might never exist. Cait’s got your back with tips on how to support the people you care about without losing yourself in the process. This episode is like a loving nudge from your best friend to wake up and see things for what they really are.
Key Topics Discussed:
- Why potential and possibility aren’t the same thing (and why that matters!)
- The emotional rollercoaster of falling for potential
- How to love and support people for who they truly are
- Practical tips for keeping your relationships healthy and drama-free
- Focusing on real actions, not just pretty words
Quotes:
- "You can’t want something for someone more than they want it for themselves."
- "Potential is just a fancy word for desire; possibility is about what they’re actually doing."
- "Loving the possibility in people means cheering them on for who they really are, not who you wish they’d be."
Call to Action:
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